This past Saturday was seemingly filled with so much hope and prosperity; Lucas and I started the morning meeting with an absolutely wonderful couple to plan engagement photographs. After, we toured an old building in the hopes of buying it for a studio space. We finished the afternoon with an intense, but satisfying workout. The day was like any other Saturday, I suppose.
Until we heard the news. Jamie Houseknecht, a friend for years, had died in a car accident. I’m still nervous and unsure writing this, but I want everyone reading this to stop and remember how fleeting life is. See, Jamie was an amazing, incredible person. I have never met anyone who had such an infectious laugh and smile, who could light up a room so completely. If you ever needed anything, he was someone who would be there. The definition of a true, great person. I just don’t think our lives will be the same without him. I think a lot of lives won’t be the same without him in it.
These photographs we take, that we overlook, are so important. Last year, Jamie had asked me to take some photographs of him and their dogs, as a gift to his girlfriend, Allison. At the funeral, I saw one of those photographs in his casket, and it shook me to my core. I never expected that a single photograph would later mean so much. A slideshow played at the viewing, detailing the fish he caught, the bar our friends helped put together, him and Allison drinking margaritas. Just… the small moments that make up a life. Those moments you completely overlook. Some of these photographs are merely snapshots from a football tailgate. So, please keep your finger on that shutter, capture everything, take it with you everywhere. Document everything big, and everything small. Find some truth and take that photograph. It may not matter tomorrow, or next year, or in ten years. But it will.
I’ve been listening to Simon & Garfunkel’s ‘Bookends’ all evening: ”I have a photograph. Preserve your memories. They’re all that’s left you.”











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